Happy July to you,
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Is your summer going well and you are enjoying it?
Summer Solstice has brought many changes and something that I have noticed more than ever before these last few weeks is what I want to talk about in this post.
Giving and receiving help! You may have heard it from me or anyone else around you that in order to get what we want, it is important to be clear what it is we want and then ask for it. Weather it's God, angels, fairies, Universe or anyone else in Spirit Realm, even if they know what it is that we want on Soul level, they are not allowed to interfere without us asking for help. It would be acting against our free will.
Spirit Realm seems to have mastered the art of patience since they interfere only if we are in life endangering situation. Other than that, Spirit is patiently waiting to be asked for help.
How is it with us humans? Having a conversation with other people, how often are we aware of the actual conversation? Especially when somebody tells us about a challenging situation they are going through in their life! Seems like it's in human nature to "jump in" with some advice, solution thatwe see for the other person, but the question is: "have they asked for the advice? Have they asked for help?" or are they just looking for someone to listen to them, somebody who is going to accept their story without any judgment or assumptions made and shared. And then, if we assume we need to help, we do what we think is right way to help the other person but this person seems to not like our help, seems to not appreciate our efforts and we feel disappointed and even angry: "I just wanted to help you but you are not listening".
When that happens, how about we stop and think, "Why is it happening? Did this person ask for the advice or we assumed that's what she/he wanted by telling their story?"
Everyone of us has our own lessons to learn in this lifetime, we all have our own ideas of what's "right" and "wrong"! it is about the acceptance - being aware of being different and honor the difference in each other. Accept people and situations for who they are and leave the ego "outside"!
This month, let's become more aware of ourselves and those around us by listening, listening and honoring each other's wishes and needs!
Have a beautiful and very fairy summer!
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Blessings of Love and Magic - ReGina
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Is your summer going well and you are enjoying it?
Summer Solstice has brought many changes and something that I have noticed more than ever before these last few weeks is what I want to talk about in this post.
Giving and receiving help! You may have heard it from me or anyone else around you that in order to get what we want, it is important to be clear what it is we want and then ask for it. Weather it's God, angels, fairies, Universe or anyone else in Spirit Realm, even if they know what it is that we want on Soul level, they are not allowed to interfere without us asking for help. It would be acting against our free will.Spirit Realm seems to have mastered the art of patience since they interfere only if we are in life endangering situation. Other than that, Spirit is patiently waiting to be asked for help.
How is it with us humans? Having a conversation with other people, how often are we aware of the actual conversation? Especially when somebody tells us about a challenging situation they are going through in their life! Seems like it's in human nature to "jump in" with some advice, solution that
we see for the other person, but the question is: "have they asked for the advice? Have they asked for help?" or are they just looking for someone to listen to them, somebody who is going to accept their story without any judgment or assumptions made and shared. And then, if we assume we need to help, we do what we think is right way to help the other person but this person seems to not like our help, seems to not appreciate our efforts and we feel disappointed and even angry: "I just wanted to help you but you are not listening".When that happens, how about we stop and think, "Why is it happening? Did this person ask for the advice or we assumed that's what she/he wanted by telling their story?"Everyone of us has our own lessons to learn in this lifetime, we all have our own ideas of what's "right" and "wrong"! it is about the acceptance - being aware of being different and honor the difference in each other. Accept people and situations for who they are and leave the ego "outside"!
This month, let's become more aware of ourselves and those around us by listening, listening and honoring each other's wishes and needs!Have a beautiful and very fairy summer!
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Blessings of Love and Magic - ReGina
